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Millionaire Pretends to Be Poor Meeting the Parents of His Son’s Fiancee — Story of the Day

A girl’s parents are against her marrying a nice young guy who they think is poor, so his millionaire father pretends to be broke and teaches them a lesson.

When Sam Sutton discovered a way to make an unbreakable sealant for engines everyone wanted, he never imagined that it would one day affect the love life of his then-infant son, Will.

Sam’s discovery brought immediate improvements to the family’s life as it happened. He started making a lot of money on that sealant’s patent. Sam, his wife, and his baby son moved to a lovely house and got a new car.

As the years passed, there was more money than Sam had ever imagined. His little family was comfortable, and that’s all he cared about. The extraordinary sums his lawyer kept reporting on seemed quite unreal.

Then something terrible happened to Sam and his family, and all those millions piled up in the bank made no difference. Sam’s wife, Rain, became very ill. Sam kept telling doctors money was no object, but they just shook their heads.

There are two things in life that money can’t buy: love and good health. Sam found out about the first in the most painful way when Rain passed away, and he’d find out about the second when Will grew up.

Being a single dad to a growing boy wasn’t easy, so maybe Sam made a few mistakes. Will was so kind, loving, and unspoiled that Sam lavished everything he could afford on him — and Sam could afford anything.

So, in high school, Will’s colleagues quickly realized that his dad was very rich and generous — and so was Will. Quickly, Will became the most popular guy — not because of his kindness or amazing good looks, but because of his dad’s money.

Girls, in particular, swarmed around Will like bees around a honey pot. At first, Will liked it, but gradually, he realized they didn’t want him. They wanted his dad’s money and all the luxury it could buy.

Will told weeping Sam that the girl he was in love with didn’t really care for him. She just cared about going along on their private plane for the Sutton family trips to Aspen, Veil, and the Bahamas.

Sam comforted his son and encouraged him to break up with that girl. The rest of Will’s senior year in high school was pretty lonely, but he had a plan. “Dad,” he said, “I have a plan.”

Sam grinned. “OK! What’s your plan?””I’m going to Yale in the fall, but I want everyone to think I’m a scholarship student.”

Sam blinked in astonishment. “A scholarship student? You? But why?”

“Well.” Will said, “if I’m poor and I wear scruffy clothes, people won’t be my friends unless they really like me. Girls won’t want to date me for our money.”

“That’s very true, Will,” Sam said. “I think that’s a brilliant plan!”

And so they put the plan in motion. Will and Sam bought all his clothes and equipment second-hand, and Will was the scruffiest, poorest-looking student you ever saw.

Money can’t buy love and good health.
The plan worked because Will quickly found many great, sincere friends, and he even met a girl he liked, and she felt the same way, too. By his third year at Yale, Will was so in love with that girl.

Her name was Eddy — for Edwina — and he decided he wanted to marry her. Sam was a little worried that Will might be too young, but he married young, too, and he’d been very happy.

So Will proposed to Eddy, and she said yes. Eddy took Will home to meet her parents that Thanksgiving, which was a disaster. Eddy’s parents, Marta and Farlow, were well-to-do and proud of their social position.

They wanted their beautiful daughter to marry a rich man, not a shabby third-year science major, no matter how smart, handsome, or funny. They were subtly unpleasant to Will but not enough that Eddy could complain.

Eddy, who had accepted Will’s proposal, proudly displayed the tiny diamond he’d given her as if it were the Kohinoor. She insisted that Will and his father join her family for the Christmas celebrations. Marta and Fallow were horrified, but they smiled, agreed, and made their plan.

Will and Sam took a Greyhound from their mansion in New Hampshire to Eddy’s family’s beach house in Narragansett to join the family for Christmas.

Eddy’s dad picked them up from the bus terminal, and the fun began. Farlow looked Sam up and down and sniffed. (Sam had gone shopping at the local Goodwill store and gone a little overboard.)

Sam didn’t look just poor; he looked almost homeless. Farlow drove them to their big house, and he talked about his wealth, his houses, and his cars. “I’ll have you know,” he said to Sam, “that I’ve done very well by my family. We live in comfort — to be honest, we live in luxury.

“Not everyone is used to that, of course, and we understand that, but we hope you and Will will be able to fit in. Christmas is very important to us.”

“It’s important to us too,” Sam said. As it turned out, Marta and Farlow’s idea of Christmas was to splurge on towers of expensive presents and show everyone they knew how successful they were.

The next few days were a nightmare. Farlow and Marta didn’t miss a chance to show Sam they believed their daughter was way out of his son’s league.

“Eddy is a wealthy young woman, Sam,” Marta said. “And her husband must be able to give her the same lifestyle. I know you’ve not done as well for Will…”

Eddy became aware of her parents’ campaign to humiliate Sam, and she was furious. So she talked with her parents. “I’m going to marry Will,” she said. “And Sam’s going to be family, so get used to it.”

“But darling,” cried her mother, “the man is a derelict! Have you seen his clothes? He’s an embarrassment.”

“Believe me, mom,” Eddy said angrily, “you are much more of an embarrassment than Sam could ever be!” Eddy could not have known that Sam was listening, and he smiled. She loved Will! He’d found his one-in-a-million girl.

That night was Christmas Eve, and when the family gathered around the tree at midnight to exchange gifts, Marta said with an unpleasant smile, “You mustn’t feel bad, Sam, we know you’re struggling!”

Marta and Farlow handed Will a box with a car key inside. “It’s an early wedding present,” Farlow said. “We thought you needed a better car. Your old clunker is at least twenty years old, Will!”

Will smiled and thanked Marta and Farlow, and they all went outside to admire the Porsche sitting in the garage with a big red bow on it. Farlow threw Sam a triumphant look and smirked. He knew that

Then Sam took an envelope out of his pocket. “Eddy,” he said. “Will told me you two plan to move to New York when you graduate.”

“That’s right, Sam! You know he has an offer from a New York research facility, and I have an internship at the Met…”

“Well, finding a place to live in Manhattan isn’t easy, so I hope this helps…” Sam gave the envelope to Eddy.

Farlow sneered. “What’s that? A list of homeless shelters in the Upper East Side? A guide to the Best Brooklyn soup kitchens?”

Eddy opened the envelope and gasped. “Sam!” she whispered. “Is this for real?” She showed Will the sheaf of papers inside the envelope, and Will ran to embrace his dad.

Farlow and Marta looked from one to the other in surprise. Then Eddy turned to her parents. “Sam’s given Will and I the deed to a brownstone in Tribeca. He’s given us a home.”

Marta and Farlow looked at each other, their mouths hanging open. “But…but…but…” gasped Farlow. “You’re POOR…The way you dress…You took the bus…”

“Well, Farlow,” said Sam gently. “I want my son to be loved and accepted for himself, not for the $570 million he will eventually inherit from me.”

There were no more objections to the wedding from Eddy’s parents. In fact, they became Will’s biggest fans and were very polite and respectful of Sam. The following summer, Will and Eddy married and moved to New York. When they welcomed their little daughter, Rain, three years later, Sam bought himself a house next door so he could be close to them.

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I Found Out My Neighbors Secretly Used My Hot Tub for a Year – I Taught Them a Lesson They Won’t Forget

Charlotte never thinks her quiet neighborhood hides secrets. But when she finds out her neighbors have been secretly using her hot tub for a year, she feels shocked and angry. She decides to teach them a lesson they won’t forget. But as she digs deeper, she discovers even more surprising things about the people living next door. What are they hiding?

It was a sunny afternoon, and I was sitting in my backyard, looking at our hot tub.

Tom and I bought our dream house a few years ago, complete with this beautiful backyard and the hot tub.

We were thrilled back then, imagining all the relaxing evenings we would spend soaking in the warm bubbles.

We knew our neighbors but weren’t particularly close. Jim and Lisa lived next door with their teenage children, Emma and Jake. They seemed nice enough, but we never really got to know them well.

Normally, Tom and I would use the hot tub a lot, especially on weekends. But this year, things were different.

I had started a new job that required a lot of travel, and Tom was working extra hours to cover for a coworker who was out on medical leave. It felt like we were always busy, and our hot tub had been neglected for months.

I missed those quiet moments of relaxation we used to have together.

I sighed, feeling a bit nostalgic. We really need to make time for ourselves again, I thought. The hot tub looked lonely, covered, and unused. It was a reminder of how our lives had changed.

I decided to call Tom. “Hey, honey,” I said when he answered, “I was thinking we need to start using the hot tub again. It’s been too long.”

Tom laughed softly. “I agree, Charlotte. Let’s plan for this weekend. We could both use some relaxation.”

I smiled, feeling a bit more hopeful. Maybe things could get back to how they used to be, even if just for a little while.

But before we could enjoy the hot tub again, our neighbor Lisa stopped by one afternoon.

“Charlotte, can I talk to you for a minute?” she asked, looking a bit uncomfortable.

“Sure, Lisa. What’s up?” I replied, curious about what she wanted to say.

“I hate to bring this up, but could you and Tom keep it down in the evenings on the weekends?” Lisa said, glancing at her feet. “There was loud music and shouting coming from your backyard last Sunday as well. Look, I’ve been quiet all this while, but it’s going to be a year now. The noise is really annoying.”

I stared at her, surprised. “But Lisa, Tom and I were out of town on Sunday. We weren’t even here. We’re out almost every weekend.”

Lisa looked puzzled. “Well, there was definitely a lot of noise coming from your place. I thought it was you guys. And it’s been so regular.”

That was shocking, so Tom and I decided to investigate. We didn’t want to upset our neighbors, and we certainly didn’t want anyone to think we were inconsiderate.

So, we set up a hidden camera overlooking the hot tub area. Then, we went on a short trip, leaving the house empty to see if anything unusual happened.

When we returned, we eagerly checked the footage. As we watched, our eyes widened in shock.

The camera had captured someone sneaking into our backyard and using the hot tub while we were away. They were playing loud music and shouting, just as Lisa had described.

“Who could this be?” I wondered aloud, feeling a mix of anger and confusion.

Tom shook his head. “We need to find out who’s doing this and why. This is our home, and we can’t have people trespassing and causing trouble.”

I nodded in agreement. Their faces weren’t visible in the footage at first. We could only see shadows and blurry figures moving around. But as they moved closer to the camera, their faces came into focus.

“Tom, look!” I gasped.

Seeing the footage of our neighbors, Jim, and his family, lounging in our hot tub made my blood boil. They were sipping drinks and laughing as if they owned the place. They even brought snacks and towels, making themselves at home.

Jim even made a funny face at the hidden camera.

“Can you believe this?” I asked Tom, fuming. “How could they feel so entitled to use our property without permission?”

Tom shook his head, equally upset. “This is unbelievable, Charlotte. We need to teach them a lesson.”

We decided to take immediate action.

Tom installed an automatic lock on the gate to keep them out. I had another idea.

I added a special, harmless dye to the hot tub water that would react with their skin, turning it a light greenish color after prolonged exposure. It wouldn’t cause any harm, but it would certainly make a point.

We wanted our neighbors to understand that their behavior was unacceptable without causing a major confrontation. It was about respect.

The next weekend, we pretended to leave again, but this time, we hid inside the house, watching the camera feed closely. As expected, Jim and his family soon made their way to our backyard, slipping into the hot tub with their usual nonchalance.

They seemed so comfortable, lounging and laughing as if they owned the place.

After about an hour, I noticed them looking at each other, their smiles fading. Their skin had turned a greenish tint. Panic set in as they realized something was wrong.

They hurried to the gate, but it automatically locked, trapping them inside. Their agitation grew, and they started shouting and banging on the gate.

“Open this darned thing!” Jim yelled.

Tom and I walked out, recording the entire scene. “What’s going on here?” I asked firmly.

Jim looked at me, his face a mix of fear and embarrassment. “Charlotte, what did you do?”

I held up the camera, showing them the footage of their uninvited visits. “This dye is harmless, but it should make you think twice before trespassing again.”

They were speechless and realized we had caught them red-handed.

I eventually unlocked the gate. “We expect more respect from our neighbors, remember that!”

Jim and his family hurried out, still looking shocked. As they left, Tom turned to me. “I think they got the message,” he said.

I nodded, feeling a sense of relief. “I hope so. We deserve to enjoy our home in peace.”

After Jim and his family left, Tom and I were determined to make sure this never happened again. I uploaded the video of their antics to our private neighborhood watch group online, warning others about Jim’s behavior.

The response was overwhelming, and several neighbors shared similar stories. One neighbor mentioned Jim using their pool without permission. Another said he borrowed tools and never returned them. Someone even claimed he threw parties in their absence.

Just when I thought the drama was over, I received an anonymous tip through the neighborhood group.

The message suggested that Jim’s behavior might be part of something bigger.

Intrigued, I decided to dig deeper.

I spent hours researching and talking to other neighbors. The pieces of the puzzle started coming together. It turned out that Jim was running an underground “Airbnb” business. He was renting out his house and using our neighborhood’s amenities to attract guests.

It was a clever scam but incredibly dishonest and invasive.

I gathered all the evidence I could find and contacted the police. They took my report seriously and began an investigation. A few days later, Jim was arrested for fraud and trespassing.

The news spread quickly, and the neighborhood breathed a collective sigh of relief.

Shortly after the scandal broke, Jim and his family moved away. Tom and I finally got our hot tub back to ourselves, and we were able to relax without any worries.

The whole experience brought our neighborhood closer together. We all became more vigilant and supportive of each other, ensuring that nothing like this could happen again.

One evening, as Tom and I soaked in the hot tub, I looked around our peaceful backyard and smiled. “We did it, Tom,” I said. “We got our home back.”

Tom nodded, holding my hand. “And we strengthened our community in the process. I couldn’t be prouder of us.”

It was a hard lesson in trust and vigilance, but it made us all stronger and more connected. And for that, I was truly grateful.

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I Had to Starve Myself for a Whole Week to Buy a Cellphone

Life really knows how to catch you off guard, and I learned that the hard way. My name’s Amber.

Until recently, I was living what I thought was the dream life with my husband Louis and our son Allen in a lovely home. We seemed so happy. Then, suddenly, everything changed.

“I think we rushed into things, Amber. I’m sorry, but I can’t do this anymore!” Louis announced one evening as he packed up. My heart just sank.

“Louis, please tell me you’re kidding. You can’t just leave us like that! What about Allen? He’s only two!” I pleaded, hoping he was joking.

“That’s exactly the problem, Amber!” he retorted. “I’m tired of all the responsibilities. I need time for myself. I’ve found someone who gets what I’m going through. Please, just let me go.”

That night, as he walked out, I just fell apart. How could the man I loved, who had never shown any signs of unhappiness, suddenly decide to abandon his family?

Once Louis was gone, reality hit me hard. I struggled to find a job while taking care of Allen alone.

Two weeks later, our landlady evicted us as I couldn’t pay the rent, and Social Services took Allen, thinking he’d be safer away from our unstable situation.

That night, I was homeless and heartbroken. My baby, my child, was taken away from me.

I sold everything I had, including my phone, and that kept me going for a while. Then, the money ran out.

One evening, out in the cold, I remembered my dad’s warnings about Louis. “He’s not right for you,” Dad had said. I wish I’d listened. Desperate to reconnect with him, I decided to buy a phone to call him.

I knew that if I borrowed a phone to call him, maybe he wouldn’t pick up the first time or even the second. But I’d have to keep trying. Or maybe no one would lend their phone to a homeless woman like me. I needed a phone of my own.

So I starved myself for a week to save enough to buy a second-hand phone. My tears didn’t stop when I dialed Dad’s number, and he answered.

“Hello? Who’s this?” he asked.

“It’s… Amber, Dad,” I sobbed into the phone.

“Amber, sweetheart! Is that you? Oh my goodness! How are things going?”

“I need your help, dad!”

“Is-Is everything okay, honey?”

“Just come as soon as possible, Dad!” I said.

He arrived quickly, and in a hotel room, I poured out my heart about the betrayal and my days on the streets. Dad comforted me, promising everything would be alright now.

The next day, Dad and I went to the orphanage to start the paperwork to bring Allen home. Once everything was finalized, Dad took Allen and me to New York.

He also hired a private detective to find out where Louis was. It turned out Louis had been cheating on me with his boss’s daughter, pretending to be single.

When his boss found out the truth — that Louis was married and had abandoned his family — he fired him. Louis ended up living on the streets. While I took no joy in his downfall, it felt like justice was done.

Back home, with my dad and Allen, I felt stronger. Life had knocked me down but taught me resilience. And with Dad’s support, I knew we could face anything ahead.

“Life can be tough, but so are you, Amber. Besides, I’ll always be here for you,” Dad reminded me as we watched Allen play one day.

I thanked him, overwhelmed with gratitude. “Thanks, Dad. For everything.”

As I tucked Allen into bed that night, I thought about our future. It wouldn’t be easy, but with love and support, we were ready for whatever came next. Life’s tough, but so are we. Now, it’s time to look forward to the new beginnings waiting for us.

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Useful Tips To Turns Men On And Keeps Them Around

For some women, they can attract men like magnets, but why and how? Believe it or not, most men have set desires and values they actually look for in the woman of their dreams – it is not about the looks or the body! “What Turns Men On and Keeps Them Around?” read below!

1-) Men seek happiness; they value a woman who appears to be cheerful, happy and always wearing a smile. Happiness and smiles go hand in hand, they truly are infectious. In all honesty, who wants to be around someone who’s frowning, complaining or leads a drama filled life? In general a smile is a “green” light, signaling it is okay to be approached by him.

2-) A compassionate woman is a prize possession to men; they search for loving and caring women that treat themselves and others in such a loving and caring approach. It is genuinely warming to a man to see women that display concerns and kindness to others. Men find compassionate women irresistible and view them as one they’d like to hold onto in a lasting relationship.

3-) Women who actually take the time to listen to their partners concern, problems, or even if they’ve just had a bad day at the office – this means so much to men because it shows you are genuine, you care and you are there for them.

4-) Men do crave a woman who dresses like a lady. This is where we can really show our best attributes ladies! We all have the power to be irresistible, it isn’t about being sexy, it isn’t about your looks; use your curves and dress to emphasize them! Men love a woman this is not ashamed or insecure of her body.

5-) Men crave touch – now this doesn’t mean grabbing all over him in public, but it does mean letting him know your there. Soft touches, holding hands, running your fingers through his hair. Touch is so important, it shows you’re interested and you desire him.

6-) Confidence in women is a huge factor to men, it shows your inner strength, what you’re capable of doing; it shows you believe in yourself and that you are comfortable in your own skin. Men love women who show they love themselves totally. They love a woman that leads a passion filled life.

7-) To all men I know, life without laughter isn’t worth living! Men love a woman with a good sense of humor. Yes, the also enjoy the more serious moments, but for any successful relationship – humor is a must!

Authenticity is huge and men truly seek for a genuine woman. Men want a woman they can confide in and share their dreams with, and they also want the same open and honesty from you at all times.

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Find the right person for you

Find someone who is proud to have you‚ scared to lose you‚ fight for you‚ appreciates you‚ respects you‚ care for you and loves you unconditionally.

Love is a beautiful thing especially when you love the right kind of people. I grew up around the bets set of humans in the world

They are basically the best things that happened to me and I wouldn’t trade them for anything in the world.

I didn’t have to find or fight for love; I know I would always be with them and they won’t ever stop loving me.

My parents are my guardian angel in human form and I knew they will always have my back. They brought me up with so much love and I know there is no atom of hate in me.

They are my best friend and I loved traveling around the world with them. I don’t know how my life is going to be like if they should ever leave me and I’m lucky I have them as mine.

Someone else I appreciate in my life is my best friend; he has shown me so much love and affection‚ something I never thought was real; I once believed it was only parents that can ever love me and I’m happy that I met him too.

He became the sibling I never had and it’s so funny how we clicked on the first day we saw each other; I found love.

Always endeavor to be with someone who feels the same way you do and not people who are forcing themselves to love you.

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I’m sending you hugs

Are you having a hard time standing on your feet again?

Do you feel no one cares for you nor loves you? Is your day so bad that you feel it’s choking the life out of you?

I’m sending you hugs today hoping that it’s going to make your day better than before.

No matter how bad the situation is, I’m always that shoulder you can lean on, talk to and we are going to figure it out.

When I couldn’t get into college, I had plans of what I was going to do after that and just how my life is going to be, but I saw them Fading away.

I was losing my mind when I still couldn’t get it right for the third time, I was walking home one day, tired of life, I just wanted to get home and cry it all out.

I got to the bus stop and it was so deserted and I took that chance to let the tears rain.

I cried so much that I didn’t know when I found my arms around the necks of a stranger.

I didn’t know when I let out all my sorrows and even when I wanted to stop crying he told me to continue, that this is going to be my last, I should let it all out.

After standing for God knows how long, I leaned on his shoulders and had the longest talk of my life.

The talk that changed my life for the better, gave my life value, and made me the happiest person on earth.

He made me discover college wasn’t everything, what if that isn’t my calling, what I was meant to do something else.

I told him my hobbies and it didn’t take long for him to connect me to a movie producer as I was very good at scriptwriting, but I abandoned it because I felt it wasn’t just necessary in the digital world, I needed my certificate more than anything.

Today, I have gone into acting and scriptwriting, my name is a household name and I got the best partner in the world, a man who changed my life for good.

I’m sending you hugs to comfort you, to let you know there’s light at the end of the tunnel keep pushing love.

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Most Important Things You Need To Know About Relationships

When you see an old couple holding hands or sharing romantic kisses while sitting on a park bench doesn’t that spark warm feelings of love and happiness in your heart. Doesn’t it make you think about how they maintained their relationship for so many years when couples you know have trouble making it past six months? Most important things you need to know about the relationship and of course some people are not made for each other and so their relationship just simply doesn’t work. But then there are couples who give up the minute an obstacle comes along which makes you think their relationship wasn’t truly important to them in the first place. What everyone has to understand in order to preserve a strong happy and prosperous relationship is that love is colorful and the same kind of love doesn’t exist for everyone. Being in a loving relationship that continues to thrive I’m going to share some of the few things that I believe should exist between two lovers who want to sustain their prosperous relationship.

1. Communication
Communicating with your partner is essential. I’m sure you’ve heard it before but communication is key.If something is bothering you or what your partner wants to do isn’t what you’re interested in say something. Neither you nor your partner are mind readers so how are they supposed to know how you feel if you keep your feelings bottled up inside. Not speaking up and communicating your ideas, feelings, desires, and wants is unhealthy because one day you might blow up and say some things you’ll either regret or feel sorry for saying. Communicate to find a middle ground in your relationship because it’s unfair for one person to constantly accommodate the other. Relationships cannot grow without communication. so don’t be afraid to speak your mind and embrace your thoughts.

2.Trust and Honesty
A relationship cannot continue without trust and honesty. By being honest with your partner they have no reason to doubt you or not trust you. Trust is vital in a strong and successful relationship because you don’t want to think twice about what your partner says or does. Almost anything can be acceptable in a relationship as long as you’re honest with your partner. Most important things you need to know about the relationship being in a relationship doesn’t mean that everything else in your life has to change. You can still see your friends go out and be your own person but be honest with your partner with whatever you do because by hiding something from them you might be giving them the perfect reason not to trust you.

3. Forgiveness
No relationship is perfect. That’s because none of us are perfect. People make mistakes in everyday life in the same way that people make mistakes in relationships. Of course, there are some things that are unforgivable, such as cheating on your partner because it means that your relationship didn’t mean much to you anyway. But, most things can be forgiven. Forgiveness is extremely important and necessary in a relationship because we have to accept and be reminded that we aren’t perfect.

4. Respect and Appreciation
Without respect and appreciation, there is no love. How can you disrespect the one you love and care for. Exactly it’s hard to find an answer. Respect is the foundation of a healthy relationship. Respect your partner by choosing your words carefully honoring boundaries being willing to compromise showing consideration and protecting your partner. Make sure you’re being respected by knowing your worth acting honorably setting and upholding boundaries being a man or woman of your word and showing respect for yourself.

5. Emotional Support
Real men don’t cryis a load of bullshit. I have been blessed to be surrounded by a few strong and courageous men in my life who I’ve seen shed a tear or cry when losing a loved one or simply out of pure happiness. We all have emotions and though we try to hold them in check, those emotions sometimes boil over. In relationships, it’s important to show emotional support for your partner regardless if they are a man or a woman.

6. Humor
Sharing laughs and smiles with the one you love is extremely important. After all being in a relationship is sharing your life with someone you care for cherishing and have fun with. Being able to joke around and laugh with one another is extremely healthy for your well-being and the relationship. It’s not just about fun and games but it’s also no fun to be so serious and stern about everything.

7. The Magic of Small Things
The small things in life are actually not that small. There are times where the smallest deed can make someone the happiest and that’s usually because the small things are the most thoughtful ones. Preparing breakfast when your partner is too tired or surprising them with an iced caramel latte on their way home from work can be enough to make their day.

8. Sharing Interests
Having things in common with the one you love and sharing interests with your partner is perfect because neither one of you need to accommodate the other. There will be days where both you and your partner will not want to do the same things and middle ground will have to be met but sharing interests makes it easier when looking for fun things to do and finding things to talk about! Having a few similar interests like bike riding or playing football allows you and your partner to have your thing the thing that brings you two together.

9. Celebrate Achievements
The happiness you feel because of your own achievements should be the same feeling you get when your partner accomplishes something they’ve been striving for no matter how little it may be. Whether it be winning the Noble Peace Prize having a 4.0 GPA, or hitting a new record at the gym no achievement should go unnoticed. Being proud of your partner’s achievements can strengthen your relationship and bring both of you closer together.

10. Love and Affection
Love is life. And if you miss love you miss life. This might strike you at first but what’s the point of being successful, rich, happy, or really anything else if you have nobody to share it with Love is one of life’s greatest gifts. It brings people together and allows them to build a life that some can only dream of. Most important things you need to know about the relationship but sometimes love is not enough to maintain a prosperous and healthy relationship.

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When She is Silent, There is a Lot She is Saying

When people are in love, they share a thing. A woman in love will not hesitate to share with you her feelings, her thoughts, and even her fears. The thing about love is that when the people we love hurt us, we feel it the most. Other people may hurt us buy it won’t be as bad as the one we receive from the one we love. When a woman in love gets emotionally hurt by her lover, and she speaks out, she has gotten over it within. You will know she is hurting when she ignores you and keeps entirely. Okay, not okay.

Ever asked a woman who is not okay if she is okay, and she says she is? Then she proceeds to ignore you and gives you the silent treatment. At that point, she is not being a difficult person; neither is she trying to be coy and petty. That is just her own way of communicating her hurt to you. She might not say it out loud and might continue to act normal, but she will be hurting.

When you sense that she might be hurting, reach out to her. Sometimes asking her if she is okay might piss her off, especially if she thinks you should know she is hurting and why. Do not try to fix the problem by psychoanalyzing her. Even if you are sure that you are not the reason she is hurting, avoid the fix-it approach.

Her silence speaks volumes
There are women who speak when they are hurting, and if you have such a woman, then be grateful. Naturally, a woman will recoil into herself when she’s hurt, especially when she’s hurt by the one she loves. She does this because normally she expects you to be the one she would turn to when someone else has hurt her. Instead, you are the one responsible for her hurting.

She would rather stay silent and ignore you. Her ignoring you is her way of trying to deal with it on her own and, at the same time, letting you know that she is not happy with you. Silence is the loudest communication most women will have with you. That is their number one signal when you have hurt them. When your normally conversational wife begins to ignore you, she is sending you a message. Please do not be too oblivious to her silent communication.

You should know her well enough to know when her silence is as a result of her needing some quiet time and when it is as a result of her ignoring you. Let your focus at that time be on trying to make her feel better. There should be no room for ego in a healthy relationship, so apologize and make amends. Acknowledge the fact that she is hurting, and if it is your fault, apologize but if the hurt is as a result of something else, ask her how you can help her feel better.

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4 Effective Ways To Cope With Losing Someone You Love

It is never easy to cope with losing someone very dear to you, no matter the litany of condolences and motivational quotes people give you. It will hurt and probably do so for a long time. That kind of pain is most felt when you want to have a conversation with them, but you discover yet again that they are and never will be around. Inasmuch as they cannot be replaced, there are surefire ways you can cope with the loss, all of which can help you actually remember them in happiness rather than all sadness.

Don’t Rush
There is no one timestamp on how long it should take for you to get over losing someone to the icy hands of death. Everyone grieves differently as you have every right to take as much time as you need. Well, it might take longer than some people are imagining, but your grief’s duration does not have to fall in the line of anyone’s predictions. If you think you are having it toward the wrong direction, then you might want to ask for help. Nevertheless, spending a whole month curled up in your bed and crying is valid only if it is what you need.

Don’t Resort To Substances
Most people think that drenching your senses in alcohol, filling up your insides with smoke and lacing your bloodstream with hard drugs helps. It does not make it feel better, neither does it change the fact that the person is never coming back from the dead. Resorting to substances is never the answer, and it can even do more harm than good. They male you temporarily numb to the pain, but spending time masking these feelings is only pushing the healing process back behind a blakc door. Talk to someone instead.

Why Not Honor The Dead?
You had some of the best times with this person, so much that you never imagined that these good things would one day come to an end. To show that you hold these memories in high esteem, why not actually honor that person you are bereaved of? It is understandable that you wish they were here, but it is more important to send them a message that their time here meant so much to you. Honoring the demise of a loved one can actually help you feel better, as you would know that they are somehow listening.

Do Something New
If there;s anything all the dead people want for the loved ones they left behind, it is that they should have a better and more satisfactory life. Rather than sitting in your bed all day with your Turkish Angora, visit a place you have never been before. You can book a trip to a new city. Isolate yourself if you have to, but note that it should not be a permanent thing. Do the things you love, connect with people, have fun and carry on their legacy. These will help only if you willingly try.

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What Man Wants In A Woman

To women, men come off as complicated and mysterious. Men and women can never understand each other up to 100%. So, when it comes to dating a man how do you what he’s looking in you? And more importantly, how can women know what men really want in a relationship? Now, of course, every man is different and every person his own set of preference, expectations, and priorities. Some will prefer blondes, others have a long history of dating brunettes, some men prefer curvy over petite others prefer petite women, and some are fine with both body types. Half of the men will be very attracted to women who are loud, chirpy and make the perfect social butterflies while other men will gravitate towards quieter and even shier women. There’s always that man who will choose a woman who is decisive and headstrong with a leader personality, but then there are men who want a woman who will take a while in decision-making processes and is a little more laid back in the department of impulsiveness. The list of men’s preferences could go on and on. It’s all a matter of personal likes, choices, and favorites. But there’s no denying that generally, there is something that every single man is looking for in the opposite gender.

Your social media and the tv may be plastered with all kinds of posts, advertisements, scenes and entire movies that will make you believe all men ever really give a sh*t about how perky your boobs are and how big your ass is. This is to all the ladies; don’t fall for it. It’s an unrealistic representation of what men desire to have in a woman, and the truth is, men, look for way more than that. There are things that men are genuinely attracted to, the things they genuinely respect and admire in a woman who they want to be in a relationship with. If you’re a girl who hasn’t had the best of experiences with men lately, you may be wondering how to make it better. You may be thinking of what to do to just nail t the next time you’re on a date with a man you’re only getting to know and want to impress. Here’s what men are really looking for in the opposite sex:

1. A woman who appreciates them
Men are attracted to women who understand them like none other. They really, really value a woman who appreciates them for who they are and what they do, who gives them real, not made up compliments who thanks them for the real things and not for superficial things like the car they own, their paycheck, or the watch they wear. The like being appreciated for their manners and their civility, for their hard work, and so much more. Men are as starved for appreciation as women, but because they like to be quiet and macho about it, they never say it out loud. They’re looking for someone who loves and understands them. Women, try and appreciate your man for the things he’s getting right in life. Men want women to feel proud of them.

2. A woman who respects them
Great women respect themselves more than anyone else and automatically respect the special man of their lives. They make sure that the man who is with them feels regarded in every manner because it isn’t just about appreciation. Man harbor a massive need to be deeply respected. They want to taken seriously and paid attention to.

3. A woman who isn’t controlling
Most men will be happy to give and to provide for. Men will take their time and do things their way, but if they’re given the needed space and time to get things right, they will do it willingly. But, bossing a man around is one thing that will make them resentful towards you. No one likes to be told what to do at every step of the way. Being controlling and bossing is toxic for a man; it makes him feel like he’s incapable of doing the things he’s supposed to do. It will also make him feel suffocated; he will end up giving up on the idea of a relationship with you.
This doesn’t mean you should let him whatever he wants all the time. A man should listen to you when you voice your opinions and concerns. There’s a fine line between being bossy and merely speaking up. Just make sure you’re not crossing that line.

4. Who helps him be his best self
Men will know it when they are around women who make them feel great about themselves. A woman who treats them in ways that make will make a man’s self-confidence and self-esteem shoot up and improve is what men look for in the opposite sex.

What Does A Man want In A Woman?
So, after reading this article we can conclude that a good man, yes a good doesn’t want a lot of things from a woman he loves but there are a few things that every man wants from a woman. As we discussed that a woman who will appreciate his man, his man would return a double of appreciation. because men have this tendency, when they get some love from their women, they want to give more love to in the return and don’t forget relationships are all about to give and take. So, dear women appreciate your men, try to give them some genuine respect, do not try to control them just, because you can’t get true love by controlling someone you love and last but not the least, try to be his motivation.

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10 Reasons Why Modern Relationships Are So Fragile

Many relationships today put comfort first. We remain with the same person while things are calm, warm, but just a problem comes up and the desire to end is gradually increasing. Of course, this does not always happen, but often people prefer to break up than try to solve problems and improve the relationship.

We are not sufficiently prepared.
Many times we are unwilling to come to terms, to sacrifice customs and to love unconditionally. We don’t want to wait, we want everything here and now. We do not give time for the evolution of our feelings.

We confuse love with other feelings.
We want a person to go to the movies or a party, not someone who understands us and supports us in times of sadness. We don’t know how to deal with boredom, so we are looking for people to turn our lives into adventure, but we don’t know how to deal with the period after this initial passion.

We sink into material problems.
Over the years, there is no time or space left for love because we care so much about problems and material goods.

We expect momentary results.
When we fall in love, we quickly want the relationship to mature, and we forget that maturity and understanding appear over the years. Most people think that nothing in the world makes up for a lost time, not even “the luck of quiet love.”

We are impatient.
A lot of people prefer to spend an hour with different people, then a whole day with one person. Nowadays people meet but don’t know each other. We want it all at once and we get into a relationship and end up without thinking twice, just because apparently it’s the best option. We do not evaluate this calmly. We do not surrender completely but require delivery from the other party. We go out with many, but we give almost none opportunities.

We depend on technology.
Technology changes so fast that physical contact has been replaced by messages, chats, applications, and video conferencing. We are no longer on the side of other people, although we know all about them through social networks.

We get bored quickly.
We think we are not made for relationships and the possibility of being with one person for a long time makes us afraid. We avoid stability for fear of boredom.

We are ‘sexually free’ people.
The new generation began to separate sex and love. Nowadays, people have sex and then evaluate whether or not they are ‘compatible’. Out-of-wedlock sex is in vogue, as are open relationships, sex between friends, one-night sex, and many other novelties that make a long relationship difficult.

We rely heavily on logic.
Few people are able to love with all their hearts, overcoming difficulties such as time and distance.

We are afraid of many things.
We are afraid of new relationships, disappointments and heart wounds, so we don’t let other people into our lives and build invisible walls that plunge us into a sea of ​​loneliness.

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9 Indicators He Feels More for You, Even If He Never Says It

It almost seems as though guys are unable to express their emotions because of something within.

Even if the majority of them wouldn’t acknowledge it, they appear to be somewhat hesitant when it comes to declaring their love for one another.

They must simply be wired differently, I suppose. It’s also possible that they are more afraid of being injured than women are.

Before they are certain of their feelings or until they feel secure enough to do so, they don’t want to express them.

Men are masters at expressing their emotions by action, which is preferable to verbally expressing them.

What a man does is always more significant than what he says. Although words might be twisted, deeds are always true.

He will undoubtedly exhibit most of the following indications if he has deeper feelings for you than he is letting on:

Everything is in his touch, kiss, and gaze upon you
He admires the freckles on your nose and remarks on how adorable they are. In order to better observe your cheerful face, he tucks your hair behind your ear.

When he develops affection for you as a result of whatever you’ve spoken, he pulls you near. He’ll give you lots of hugs and passionate kisses.

No matter who else is present, he can’t take his eyes off of you. He considers you to be the most stunning lady alive. Should I mention anything else?

He opens out to you a lot
He always asks how your day was and then updates you on his own. You play a significant role in his life, thus he is interested in learning about it.

You mean a lot to him and are already in his heart, so he shares with you about his day, his problems, his past, his dreams, and his ideas.

He attempts to maintain contact
He simply asks you whether you slept well every morning to show you how much he cares. Every night he sends you a straightforward text with a kiss goodnight to demonstrate this.

He is letting you know that he is thinking about you and that he can’t fathom his mornings or nights going without you by completing these small gestures.

He’s spending time with you
without even requiring a request from you. No matter how busy he is, he always makes time for you.

He’s telling you that you’re important. You can tell that he is eager to spend time with you.

As long as you are together, it doesn’t really matter what you are doing or for how long; joy and happiness are guaranteed.

He is focused on the minor, important things
When he knocks on your door carrying take-out chicken soup while you’re ill, he shows you that he cares.

If he is unable to do that, he will at least text you to see how you are doing and to check in on you.

You can be sure he will recall every tale you have told him. He will question you about confidential, in-depth matters.

He will have in mind your preferred method of brewing coffee and your dislike of pineapple on pizza.

Because he pays attention to the person he is in love with, he will remember.

6- He does not conceal you

He is proud to have you in his life, on the other hand. He always presents you as his girlfriend, even though it makes his cheeks flush. You’ve previously met several of his buddies.

He shares photos of you on his social media pages.

You cannot gauge love in such a way, regardless of how many pictures there are or how many there are. It matters that he is not keeping you a secret from those in his life, not even those who are only virtual.

No matter what, he sticks by your side
When you’re depressed, he is there. When times are rough for you, he doesn’t bolt for the hills. He remains and offers support. He is aware that nothing is ever going to be perfect.

When you are upset with him or after a disagreement, he doesn’t back down. He always tries to clarify everything and find solutions to any problems you might be having.

If he admits that he was mistaken, he will readily apologise and make every effort to avoid repeating anything that has caused you pain.

He anticipates particular future events
He is referring to an upcoming performance or movie premiere. He is asking where you would want to travel for the summer or winter holidays.

Even for a dinner date the next week, he plans ahead. He is making an effort to let you know that he sees you as a long-term partner.

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Give life a chance, breath

Dance as though no one is watching you, sing as though no one can hear you.

Love like you’ve never been hurt before and live as though heaven is on earth.

Be happy no matter what you have been through, after night comes sunshine, and always bear in mind that the world gets brighter each time you smile.

Give life another chance, let the past be in the past, let love lead.

I never believed I could be in a situation where I could advise someone to let go of the past and give life another chance.

My last marriage left me with a PSTD and no matter how I tried to convince myself I was getting better I knew I was breaking the remaining pieces of my life into fragments.

The friend I trusted so much broke into my home and took the man I so much loved.

My instincts were never wrong, I saw it coming and wanted to solve everything when it was still early, but the love of my life called me crazy for thinking he’s ever going to cheat on me.

He divorced me a few months later and I felt I still had a chance, but not until I saw his child dedication invitation at my doorstep, worse still he has a child with my best friend.

I gave up on love and shut myself out from the world, but today my life has taken another shape as I decided to give life a chance, there’s still some good left.

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The old ones are still the best

When looking at my mum’s younger pictures I can but imagine how life moves so fast and how far we have gone.

Each picture reminds me of the memories we have together; when she could still walk with her both legs and those moments she was always playing with my kids; I never failed to capture those moments.

Life moves so fast before our eyes and hence we should make every moment count with our loved ones.

While having my first and seconds kids you were holding my hands and telling me to be strong that you will always be with me.

You helped me have an easy birth, but the last two that came, you were sitting on the wheelchair giving me your words of encouragement, at that moment I knew mama has gotten older.

Your life is something worthy of emulation as you lived an exemplary life for me and my siblings.

Even at old age, you never stopped looking after us or making sure our various families were doing fine.

Your physical features got old, but your head and heart never aged for a bit.

You still single-handedly handle the family’s company asking us to spend time with our family, that you will take care of everything.

You always told me that you want us to be very comfortable after your departure, but I don’t want to even think about t.

You have become part of my life and I don’t know what life could be without you; I want to be with you forever, mama.

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